In regards to being friends with your EX, it depends on the person. There isn’t always a cookie cutter approach to love. This boot camp was designed to provide you with the proper tools so you can make the best decision for you.
With that said, some people can be friends with an EX (even when they are in a new relationship) and everything is fine. However, don’t think for a second that something is wrong if someone doesn’t want their man or woman talking to an EX. It takes strength to set boundaries in your life. Some may think creating this boundary shows a sign of insecurity. However, when you put a fence around your property it’s not because you are insecure about your home, its more about making yourself feel comfortable. For example, if I have a dog and have built a fence around my home, I’m more comfortable about allowing my dog to run free without having to worry about, “is someone going to steal him” or “Is she going to run away?”
If you want to be completely free in a relationship, sometimes you have to set boundaries (put up a fence) that will allow you to be free of jealousy or fear.