Pick your battles. Some people simply have not found their ideal spouse because they constantly go after the people who are not that into them. Just because you had great sex doesn’t mean they care for you like you care for them. Choose people that naturally respond to you the way you feel your future husband or wife would. That is of course assuming that you want your potential partner to reciprocate the love you are giving them. If they don’t respond to you naturally, you can still have a good time with them if you choose. However, please take them off the list as a potential partner. I know life is all about the challenge but it is not a great feeling to chase someone for the rest of your life if they don’t desire you equally. I’m here to tell you that there is someone out there that wants you as bad as you will want them. That makes your job easier. Save yourself the headache and the heartache.