Category Archives: Blog

Elusive Love?

  My name is L’Oreal, I live in Atlanta by way of Chicago, IL. I have always had a passion for music, poetry, reading and fine places and things. I recently started writing my own love poems again. I love to travel and currently work for a company that requires a lot of travel. I love talking to people and gaining their perspectives on the topic of genuine, kindred love. My mission is to invoke the spirit of love! My purpose is […]


 Miyokee Lovell is a woman of dynamic talents (model, actor, singer, dancer, make-up artist, visionary, writer and business woman.) She is a Masters Degree Candidate of Public Administration at Seton Hall University and serves as the Program Director for the Global Leadership and Career Mentorship Development Program. Miyokee is in the process of launching her own initiative entitled, Know Your Worth ( The goal of Know Your Worth, is to be able to reach and teach young women their own […]

Why Are Men Afraid Of Love?

   I am a writer, poet, and blogger. I have had a love affair with writing for 28 years and we are still going strong. Since August 2009 I have been writing a relationship blog Loverzquarrel’s Blog and more recently I launched an online self-help magazine entitled Cultivation of You (COY) . I pride myself on sharing various experiences to help someone else. I anticipate that you can learn from my mistakes and take away a bit of wisdom from my growth […]

In Regard To Love With The Powerful Jamie Owens

“Uplifting, Empowering, & Encouraging others to reach their full potential.” This is Jamie Owens’ mission. Jamie is a speaker, motivator, encourager, blogger, and an aspiring life coach. She doesn’t purport to know it all; however she is striving to fulfill her purpose which is to help affirm others of their worth; that they are good enough and to help them reach their full potential. You can visit her blog at   Love; a word we often misuse. A word we […]

What Do You Expect?

    Most of us expect to get up tomorrow. So much so that we plan vacations 5 months in advance. Think about it. We don’t have a doubt in our mind that we will be living by the time our travel day arrives. It just comes so natural; it’s like magic! Call it the “secret”, call it the law of “intention”, call it the law of “attraction”, or just call it “life”. What if you learned how to do […]

You Complete ME

  If you notice, my wife and I are leaning on separate palm trees. This is a strong metaphor for our love. We had our own thing going on when we were single, and we didn’t need one another to complete each other. While dating, it wasn’t hard to decide if we were right for each other long term. Although we had our own separate lives (trees) we paid close attention to make sure that our core values, needs and […]

Documentation Beats Conversation

I stay ready with a camera because a good friend of mine said “Documentation beats conversation.” I can show you better than I can tell you…. I remember taking a picture of this coconut tree in Barbados years ago and thought “that’s beautiful, it’s so different so unique.” Never once did I say “Why doesn’t it look like the other trees next to it.” Even today when I see a palm tree slightly bent I think of the palm tree back […]

Love is a Battlefield

 Pick your battles. Some people simply have not found their ideal spouse because they constantly go after the people who are not that into them. Just because you had great sex doesn’t mean they care for you like you care for them. Choose people that naturally respond to you the way you feel your future husband or wife would. That is of course assuming that you want your potential partner to reciprocate the love you are giving them. If they don’t […]

Forever My Lady

One day I was walking into the bank when I saw this older gentleman on his way out of the same door I was about to enter. He was taking his good ol’ time so I decided to walk back out and hold the door for him. He had his brown dress socks pulled all the way up and yes they still had the elastic in them. He had on a huge pair of glasses with a traditional “Old man […]

Here Today Gone Today

“Trevor I just realized I messed up.” These are words from a friend of mine who I recently spoke to. For the past few weeks I have been coaching/counseling her on success principles as they apply to effective dating and requirements for a great relationship. For some reason our session the other day hit her hard and she had an “ahh ha” moment. It is about 2 years since she dumped this guy she swore wasn’t right for her. At the time, […]